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Wednesday, June 30, 2010

MAHER ZAIN: BARAKALLAH

Mungkin Maher Zain sudah lama dikenali, tapi bagi saya yang baru mendengar nasyidnya di IKIM.FM amat kagum dengan bakat yang Allah kurniakan padanya.

By: Maher Zain

We’re here on this special day
Our hearts are full of pleasure
A day that brings the two of you
Close together
We’re gathered here to celebrate
A moment you’ll always treasure
We ask Allah to make your love
Last forever

Let’s raise our hands and make Du’a
Like the Prophet taught us
And with one voice
Let’s all say, say, say

بارك الله لكما وبارك عليكما
وجمع بينكما في خير
بارك الله لكما وبارك عليكما
وجمع بينكما في خير
Baraka Allahu Lakuma wa Baraka alikuma
Wa jamaah baina kuma fee khair.
Barakallah hu lakuma wa baraka alikuma
Wa jamaah baina kuma fii khair.

From now you’ll share all your chores
Through heart-ship to support each other
Together worshipping Allah
Seeking His pleasure

We pray that He will fill your life
With happiness and blessings
And grants your kids who make your home
Filled with laughter

Let’s raise our hands and make Dua
Like the Prophet taught us
And with one voice
Let’s all say, say, say

بارك الله لكما وبارك عليكما
وجمع بينكما في خير
Baraka Allahu Lakuma wa Baraka alikuma
Wa jamaah baina kuma fee khair.
Barakallah hu lakuma wa baraka alikuma
Wa jamaah baina kuma fii khair.

بارك الله
بارك الله لكم ولنا

الله بارك لهما
الله أدم حبهما
الله صلّي وسلّم على رسول الله

الله تب علينا
الله ارض عنا
الله اهد خطانا
على سنة نبينا

Let’s raise our hands and make Du’a
Like the Prophet taught us
And with one voice
Let’s all say, say, say

بارك الله لكما وبارك عليكما
Barakallahu Lakuma wa Baraka alikuma

(SUMBER:http://www.islamiclyrics.net/maher-zain/baraka-allahu-lakuma/)

Friday, June 25, 2010

KALI CARI BALDI

"Kali cari baldi" istilah ciptaan saya adalah sama dengan "perigi cari timba" menggambarkan fenomena wanita melamar lelaki dalam bab memilih jodoh.
  • Apabila ada kenalan2 bertanyakan saya "salahkah wanita yang memulakan langkah" dalam memilih jodoh, saya dengan senang hati tanpa curiga menjawab "tidak salah, asalkan menepati ajaran Islam".
  • Apabila orang bertanya bagaimana saya bertemu jodoh? biarlah saya menyimpan sedikit rahsia...
  • Apabila orang bertanya lanjut"pilihan keluarga atau sendiri?" jawapannya tentulah pilihan sendiri kerana jika keluarga memilih untuk saya tentulah mereka tidak menitikberatkan soal agama, kerja dan keluarga calon. Jika saya percaya pilihan keluarga menepati kehendak saya, tentunya saya serahkan segala urusan kepada keluarga.
  • Soal berumahtangga adalah antara soal rumit dalam kehidupan bagi saya. Sejak dari pemilihan calon, keluarga calon, mentua, anak, dan saudara-mara semuanya menjadi perkara penting.
  • Kadangkala kita banyak pilihan untuk dibuat. Kadang-kala kita perlu fikir cara yang sesuai untuk "menolak" lamaran dengan baik.
  • Adamasa orang yang kita suka tidak dapat terima kita.
  • Adamasa orang yang kita suka tidak sekufu dengan kita.
  • Selalu terjadi, ragu-ragu dan was-was menghantui...benarkah "si dia" adalah jodoh kita?
  • Sering terjadi suka sama suka hanya dalam hati; takut dan malu menyelubungi diri.
  • Bagi saya, apa yang penting, setiap keputusan yang hendak diambil kita hendaklah berani:berani membuat keputusan, dan berani menghadapi risiko pada masa yang akan datang.
  • Seperti saya disaat membuat keputusan untuk berkahwin dengan suami, ada orang mengatakan saya ada risiko jadi janda diusia muda.
  • Bagi saya, apa yang penting kita wajib percaya kepada ketentuan Allah.
  • Allah menentukan yang terbaik buat kita, walaupun pada mata kasar kita tidak menyukainya.
  • Pilihlah yang menyukai dan mencintai kita walaupun kita tidaklah menyukainya.
  • Janganlah terlalu mengharap kepada orang yang belum tentu menerima kita, terimalah pilihan yang ada yang ikhlas menerima kita seadanya.

BELANJA UNTUK BUKU

BUKU JENDELA ILMU
(image daripada taufik79.wordpress.com)
  • Alhamdulillah, semenjak berkahwin dengan suami yang suka membeli buku, tempiasnya turut terkena padaku.
  • Suami menjadi "pengawal"ku daripada berbelanja untuk barang2 yang kurang mendatangkan manfaat.
  • Bukanlah bermaksud aku jenis boros berbelanja, tapi adakalanya sebagai seorang perempuan, aku juga suka kelihatan cantik; membeli pakaian yang cantik2, perkakas dapur dsbg.
  • Tapi kini semua minatku terhadap kecantikan material kian pudar, pakaianku tidak lagi yang cantik2....kerana kini aku mula belajar untuk berbelanja untuk buku.
  • Jika bukan kerana suamiku, belum tentu aku akan berhabis beribu-ribu untuk buku. Tahun ini sahaja, hampir RM7k.
  • Sewaktu dulu, aku juga suka beli buku, cuma agak "memilih" kerana kekurangan wang.
  • Sebagai seorang anak daripada keluarga susah, aku perlu berjimat wang untuk diriku dan keluarga dikampung. Duitku bukan duitku seorang tapi untuk keluarga dikampung juga walaupun ketika itu aku masih belajar di universiti yang sepatutnya dibiayai, tapi aku juga membiayai.
  • Dulu, walaupun susah, aku masih beli buku kecuali buku2 untuk pelajaran untuk matapelajaran berbahasa Inggeris yang agak mahal, aku photostate saja. Tapi buku berbahasa Arab untuk apa jua matapelajaran selalunya aku beli;jarang sekali aku pinjam daripada kawan2 atau copy.
  • Adakalanya aku hairan dengan orang yang "senang" walaupun tidak terlalu "berada" suka meminjam buku dan photostate buku. Mereka boleh silih berganti baju, makan makanan yang sedap, sedang aku selalu pakai pakaian yang sama, sering alas perut dengan "Maggie", atau berkongsi makanan, atau makan 2x untuk satu makanan.
  • Yang paling tidak dapat dilupakanku, ada buku aku yang dipinjam oleh salah seorang mereka yang "senang" kemudian dicontengnya buku itu dengan comot sekali .Arghhhh, sedih sekali aku waktu itu.
  • Walaupun dulu aku suka "conteng" buku tapi aku tidaklah suka "comot"kannya.
  • Kini aku semakin menghargai dan mencintai buku.

Thursday, June 24, 2010

SATU-SATUNYA dan SATU PERSATU

Sayalah satu-satunya,
Dalam keluarga,
Yang mendalami bidang agama,
Yang masuk menara gading.
Antara 8 beradik

Tapi
Saya masih mengharap
2 adik perempuan mengikuti jejak saya
Setidak-tidaknya masuk universiti
Walaupun bukan bidang agama

Sayalah satu-satunya
Wanita yang direzekikan
Dengan anugerah tertinggi peringkat universiti
Pada konvokesyen UIAM 2004
Disamping 3 jejaka Kuliyyah Kejuruteraan
Saya satu-satunya bidang agama

Anugerah Ilahi untuk disyukuri...
Banyak nikmat yang dikecapi
Banyak pula yang ditarik kembali

Makan???
Tidak boleh makan pedas
Tidak boleh makan buah kecuali epal dan pear
Minum???
Jangan yang sejuk-sejuk

Kuhitung-hitung satu persatu
Apa yang telah berlaku
Apa yang perlu dilakukan

Kuhitung-hitung
Dosa-dosaku satu-persatu
Salah silapku satu persatu

Kumohon
Semoga Allah terus berikan aku kekuatan dan hidayahNya
Itulah nikmat yang tiada taranya

Semoga anda mengampunkan dosa-dosa saya kepada anda.....
Semoga Allah mengampuni saya
Kerana RahmatNya lebih luas dari murkaNya

Tuesday, June 22, 2010

PHD: Mungkin saya akan ke India/Pakistan

  • Tajuk PHD saya bertukar-tukar atas sebab2 tertentu. Antaranya co-supervisor saya telah bertukar universiti.
  • Apa yang penting, buat masa sekarang saya bersyukur kerana saya telah mempunyai tajuk atas pilihan dan kehendak saya sendiri (dengan izin Allah).
  • Tajuk yang berkaitan dengan syarah Sahih Muslim oleh Maulana Taqi Uthmani dari Pakistan. Beliau adalah antara ulama terkenal dari benua India sehingga diletakkan pada tangga ke-27 dalam "The Most 500 Influential Muslims 2009".
  • Rasanya, inilah masanya untuk saya belajar bahasa Urdu secara serius dengan suami.
  • Saya memang meminati bahasa Urdu kerana sedari kecil saya gemar menonton filem Hindi.
  • Dulu saya begitu "feeling" dengan filem2 Hindustan, tetapi tidak lagi kini. Perasaan itu seolah2 mati untuk saya menghayati cerita dan watak yang selalunya membuatkan air mata mengalir pabila watak sedih dimainkan.Arghh...itu zaman jahiliyyah saya...sehingga saya boleh menghafal beberapa lagu yang saya suka...gilanya waktu dulu.
  • Kini saatnya untuk saya serius belajar bahasa Urdu demi ilmu kerana khazanah ilmu dalam bahasa ini amat luas. Apatah lagi saya perlu memahami tulisan2 Maulana Taqi yang kebanyakannya dalam Bahasa Urdu selain Arab dan Inggeris.
  • Besar kemungkinan saya perlu merantau kebenua India untuk menjayakan tesis PHD saya. Hati teringin bangat menjejaki ke bumi India dan Pakistan. Cuma daripada cerita2 suami, saya tak dapat bayangkan bagaimana saya akan lalui kehidupan disana.
  • Doakan moga Allah mudahkan urusan saya.Amin.

Sunday, June 20, 2010

PHD: RM4K UNTUK KITAB DARI PAKISTAN

Senarai kitab Maulana Taqi Uthmani

Alhamdulillah hingga saat ini, PHD saya di UM mula mendapat nafas baru. Setelah mengambil masa mengumpul bahan dan maklumat untuk 3 tajuk, akhirnya dengan izin Allah tajuk yang terakhir adalah tajuk yang akan menjadi kajian PHd saya setakat ini.

Alhamdulillah, kitab2 dari Pakistan telah dipos dari sana oleh salah seorang kenalan suami yang belajar disana. Pelajar tersebut akan pulang ke Malaysia 30 Jun 2010 ini. Saya doakan dia selamat pulang ke Malaysia dan bertemu sanak-saudaranya dan kenalan2nya termasuk kami.

Sebanyak hampir 4ribu dibelanjakan untuk membeli kitab2 dari sana terutamanya kitab2 yang secara langsung berkaitan tesis saya. Setelah pengirim (pelajar tadi) menghadapi pelbagai ujian, akhirnya kitab selamat diposkan (dengan kapal terbang) pada 20 Jun 2010 dan Insyaallah akan sampai selepas seminggu.

Pelbagai kerumitan yang dihadapinya dalam proses ini; antaranya kad Maybank-nya rosak sehingga menyulitkan pengeluaran wang yang kami kirimkan. Dia terpaksa meminta ayahnya memindahkan wang tersebut ke akaun kawannya. Masalah kedua ialah pengeluaran wang terhad hanya kepada RM1000 sehari (x 25 duit Pakistan) walaupun pada mesin wang yang berbeza, itulah had pengeluaran wang dalam sehari disana (seperti di india kata suami saya). Masalah seterusnya ialah nama penerima mesti lebih daripada seorang (bukanlah masalah, cuma baru tahu undang2 sana, mungkin juga sama dengan negara2 lain??). Selepas meng"sms"kan 3 nama penerima, akhirnya selesai urusan pos. Alhamdulillah. Dan kini saya tertunggu2 kitab dari sana moga sampai dengan selamat.InsyaAllah.

Doakan saya semoga berjaya dunia dan akhirat.

Friday, June 18, 2010

IKHTILAF

Ikhtilaf - (differences) among the Madhhabs in Islam
Differences of Opinion are a Mercy
By Dr. G. Fouad Haddad
1. Al-Hafiz al-Bayhaqi in his book "al-Madkhal" and al-Zarkashi in his "Tadhkirah fi al-ahadith al-mushtaharah" relate: Imam al-Qasim ibn Muhammad ibn Abi Bakr al-Siddiq said: "The differences among the Companions of Muhammad (s) are a mercy for Allah's servants. Al-Hafiz al-`Iraqi the teacher of Ibn Hajar al-`Asqalani said: "This is a saying of al-Qasim ibn Muhammad who said: 'The difference of opinion among the Companions of Muhammad (s) is a mercy.

2. Al-Hafiz Ibn al-Athir in the introduction to his "Jami` al-usul fi ahadith al-rasul" relates the above saying from Imam Malik according to al-Hafiz Ibn al-Mulaqqin in his "Tuhfat al-muhtaj ila adillat al-Minhaj" and Ibn al-Subki in his "Tabaqat al-Shafi`iyya."

3. Bayhaqi and Zarkashi also said: Qutada said: "'Umar ibn `Abd al-`Aziz used to say: 'It would not please me more if the Companions of Muhammad (s) did not differ among them, because had they not differed there would be no leeway (for us).'"

4. Bayhaqi also relates in "al-Madkhal" and Zarkashi in the "Tadhkira": Al-Layth ibn Sa`d said on the authority of Yahya ibn Sa`id: "the people of knowledge are the people of flexibility (tawsi`a). Those who give fatwas never cease to differ, and so this one permits something while that one forbids it, without one finding fault with the other when he knows of his position."

5. Al-Hafiz al-Sakhawi said in his "Maqasid al-hasana" p. 49 #39 after quoting the above: "I have read the following written in my shaykh's (al-Hafiz ibn Hajar) handwriting: 'The hadith of Layth is a reference to a very famous hadith of the Prophet (s), cited by Ibn al-Hajib in the "Mukhtasar" in the section on qiyas (analogy), which says: "Difference of opinion in my Community is a mercy for people" (ikhtilafu ummati rahmatun li al-nas). There is a lot of questioning about its authenticity, and many of the imams of learning have claimed that it has no basis (la asla lahu). However, al-Khattabi mentions it in the context of a digression in "Gharib al-hadith" . . . and what he says concerning the tracing of the hadith is not free from imperfection, but he makes it known that it does have a basis in his opinion.'"

6. Al-`Iraqi mentions all of the above (1-5) in his "Mughni `an haml al-asfar" and says: "What is meant by "the Community" in this saying is those competent for practicing legal reasoning (al-mujtahidun) in the branches of the law, wherein reasoning is permissible."

NOTE: What `Iraqi meant by saying "the branches wherein reasoning is permissible" is that difference is not allowed in matters of doctrine, since there is agreement that there is only one truth in the essentials of belief and anyone, whether a mujtahid or otherwise, who takes a different view automatically renounces Islam. (Shawkani, "Irshad al-Fuhul" p. 259 as quoted in Kamali, "Principles of Islamic Jurisprudence" p. 383.) Al-Albani in his attack on the hadith "Difference of opinion in my Community is a mercy" ignores this distinction and even adduces the verse: "If it had been from other than Allah they would have found therein much discrepancy" (4:82) in order to prove that differences can never be a mercy in any case but are always a curse. Al-Albani's point is directed entirely against those who are content to follow a madhhab. The only scholar he quotes in support of his position is Ibn Hazm al-Zahiri, whose mistake he adopts without mentioning it was denounced by Nawawi. ("Silsila da`ifa" 1:76 #57)

7. Ibn Hazm said in "al-Ihkam fi usul al-ahkam" (5:64): "The saying "Difference of opinion in my Community is a mercy" is the most perverse saying possible, because if difference were mercy, agreement would be anger, and it is impossible for a Muslim to say this, because there can only be either agreement, or difference, and there can only be either mercy, or anger." However, Imam Nawawi said in his Commentary on "Sahih Muslim": "If something (i.e. agreement) is a mercy it is not necessary for its opposite to be the opposite of mercy. No-one makes this binding, and no-one even says this except an ignoramus or one who affects ignorance. Allah the Exalted said: "And of His mercy He has made night for you so that you would rest in it," and He has named night a mercy: it does not necessarily ensue from this that the day is a punishment."

8. Al-Khattabi said in "Gharib al-hadith": "Difference of opinion in religion is of three kinds: - In affirming the Creator and His Oneness: to deny it is kufr (disbelief); - In His attributes and will: to deny them is innovation; - In the different rulings of the branches of the law (ahkam al-furu`): Allah has made them mercy and generosity for the scholars, and that is the meaning of the hadith: "Difference of opinion in my Community is a mercy." Al-Jarrahi cited it in "Kashf al-khafa" 1:64 #153.

9. Al-Hafiz al-Suyuti says in his short treatise "Jazil al-mawahib fi ikhtilaf al-madhahib" (The Abundant Grants Concerning the Differences Among the Schools): "The hadith "Difference of opinion in my Community is a mercy for people" has many benefits among which are the fact that the Prophet (s) foretold of the differences that would arise after his time among the madhahib in the branches of the law, and this is one of his miracles because it is a foretelling of things unseen. Another benefit is his approval of these differences and his confirmation of them because he characterizes them as a mercy. Another benefit is that the legally responsible person can choose to follow whichever he likes among them." After citing the saying of `Umar ibn `Abd al-`Aziz already quoted (#3 above), Suyuti says: "This indicates that what is meant is their differences in the rulings in the branches of the law."

10. The muhaddith al-Samhudi relates al-Hafiz Ibn al-Salah's discussion of Imam Malik's saying concerning difference of opinion among the Companions: "Among them is the one that is wrong and the one that is right: therefore you must exercise ijtihad." Samhudi said: "Plainly, it refers to differences in legal rulings (ahkam). Ibn al-Salah said: "This is different from what Layth said concerning the flexibility allowed for the Community, since this applies exclusively to the mujtahid as he said: "you must exercise ijtihad," because the mujtahid's competence makes him legally responsible (mukallaf) to exercise ijtihad and there is no flexibility allowed for him over the matter of their difference. The flexibility applies exclusively to the unqualified follower (muqallid). The people meant in the saying: "Difference of opinion in my Community is a mercy for people" are those unqualified followers. As for the import of Malik's saying "Among the Companions is the one that is wrong and the one that is right," it is meant only as an answer to those who say that the mujtahid is able to follow the Companions. It is not meant for others.""

11. The author of "al-Fiqh al-Akbar" (attributed to Imam Abu Hanifa) said: "Difference of opinion in the Community is a token of divine mercy."

12. Ibn Qudama al-Hanbali said in "Al-`Aqa'id": "The difference in opinion in the Community is a mercy, and their agreement is a proof."

Discussion

The decision of `Umar whereby he gave precedence to `Ubayy ibn Ka`b's ijtihad over the ijtihad of `Abdullah ibn Mas`ud on the validity of praying in a single garment is not a proof that `Abdullah was wrong, rather it is a proof that `Umar exercised his own ijtihad and authority as the Greater Imam in settling the question. He overruled, not invalidated, and if Ibn Mas`ud held his position from the Prophet (s) he cannot change it even after `Umar's ruling. This is true of every true mujtahid at any time: he is obligated to follow the result of his own ijtihad even if it should differ with that of every other mujtahid of the past and present, unless he becomes convinced that he was mistaken in his previous ijtihad.

According to all the scholars it is incumbent upon the leader of the Muslims to be a mujtahid and it is his responsibility in such cases to settle the question for the sake of the people of his time, and that is the proper context of Imam Malik's injuction: "Exercise ijtihad." It is addressed to the mufti who must establish what is correct in clearcut fashion, not to the muqallid (follower) who is only interested in "a way to follow" (= madhhab) without having to verify its proofs and inferences. However, another mufti may reach another conclusion and be followed, and is not bound by that of the first, nor are those who take their fatwa from him, and no-one finds fault with the other, as Al-Layth ibn Sa`d stated.

A clear proof that the fatwa of the leader overrules but does not invalidate the opinion of the Companions even if it directly contradicts it, is the fact that when `Umar ibn al-Khattab proposed to have all the hadith collected and written down he consulted the Companions and they unanimously agreed to his proposal; later he disapproved of it and ordered that everyone who had written a collection burn it. Yet `Umar ibn `Abd al-`Aziz later ordered that hadith be collected and written. Al-Hafiz al-Baghdadi relates it in his "Taqyid al-`ilm" 49, 52-53, 105-106, and Ibn Sa`d in his "Tabaqat" 3(1):206, 8:353.

Those who think they are mujtahid but in reality are unqualified, when faced by the followers of madhahib, cover up their ignorance with the flashy claim: "We follow Qur'an and Sunna, not madhahib." When it is pointed out to them that to follow a madhhab is to follow Qur'an and Sunna through true ijtihad, they become upset: "How can the four madhhabs differ and be right at the same time? I have heard that only one may be right, and the others wrong." The answer is that one certainly follows only the ruling that he believes is right, but he can never fanatically invalidate the following of other rulings by other madhahib, because they, also, are based on sound principles of ijtihad. At this they rebel and begin numbering the mistakes of the mujtahids: "Imam Malik was right in this, but he was wrong in that; Imam Shafi`i was right in this, but he was wrong in that . . . " This is what they say, and what they hide in their heart is worse because it includes even the Companions. This we will never accept. But when they are rebuked for this blatant disrespect they make it known that they have been wronged and "They are arrogant in their sin" (2:206). This is nothing else than the legacy of the Wahhabi/Salafi movement.

Blessings and Peace on the Prophet, his Family, and His Companions. May Allah be well pleased with the Four Mujtahid Imams, and all the scholars who feared Allah truly.

(http://www.themodernreligion.com/basic/madhab/mercy.html)